Falling in love vs growing in love [Bride and Groom]

Falling in love should be effortless and it is a beautiful thing. 
Love that isn’t effortless implies that it is choreographed, and later in your relationship, you may question the authenticity of your feelings.
However, when falling in love wanes, the important part starts: growing in love. When people grow in love, they grow to appreciate their partners for both their strengths and weaknesses.